Father’s Day is a special time to celebrate the important role fathers play in families and the wider community. It is a day of recognition, appreciation, and often reflection. But for many men, this occasion can also highlight the complex challenges they face in balancing fatherhood with legal issues particularly the increasing prevalence of Apprehended Violence Orders (AVOs) in Australia.
At Pannu Lawyers, we regularly assist clients navigating these sensitive matters, and we recognise the significant impact they can have on both family life and legal rights.
The Changing Face of Fatherhood
Modern Australian fathers are more involved than ever in parenting. Research shows that over 4.6 million men in Australia are fathers, with nearly 2.2 million actively raising children under 18. Fatherhood today goes beyond being a provider. It encompasses emotional connection, day-to-day caregiving, and co-parenting responsibilities.
On Father’s Day, these contributions are rightly celebrated. Yet, for some fathers, legal disputes and AVO proceedings can make the day more complicated and emotionally challenging.
The Rise of AVOs in Australia
Growing Numbers
Recent statistics reveal a sharp increase in AVOs across New South Wales, with longer standard durations (extended from 12 months to 24 months) and more orders initiated by police.
Research by the Australian Institute of Criminology also shows that by the age of 37, nearly 1 in 10 men in NSW have faced some form of legal action related to domestic or family violence.
Broader Impacts
While AVOs play a vital role in protecting victims of domestic and family violence, they can also have serious consequences for men:
Parenting arrangements – An AVO must be disclosed in family law proceedings and may influence parenting orders, including time spent with children.
Employment and travel – Certain professions, background checks, and international travel can be restricted when an AVO is in place.
Personal wellbeing – For many fathers, the stigma of an AVO whether finalised or not can affect relationships, mental health, and community standing.
Fathers as Victims Too
It is important to acknowledge that while much attention focuses on female victims (and rightly so), men can also be victims of family violence. Studies suggest that around one in three victims are male, yet men are often less likely to report incidents or seek help due to stigma and a lack of tailored support services.
At Pannu Lawyers, we understand that every case is unique. Whether our client is seeking protection through an AVO, or defending against one they believe has been unfairly made, our role is to ensure that their rights are protected, and their voice is heard.
Father’s Day in Context
For many men, Father’s Day is a joyful occasion filled with appreciation and love. But for fathers subject to, or affected by, AVO proceedings, it can also be a reminder of fractured relationships, restricted contact with children, or the weight of ongoing legal proceedings.
This is why it is critical to:
Seek early legal advice to understand your rights and obligations.
Address AVO implications in relation to employment, travel, and parenting arrangements.
Access appropriate support services for mental health and family wellbeing.
How Pannu Lawyers Can Help
At Pannu Lawyers, we provide clear, practical advice in all matters relating to Apprehended Violence Orders and family law. We assist fathers and families by:
Representing clients in AVO hearings.
Advising on the intersection between AVOs and parenting orders.
Helping clients mitigate the impact of an AVO on work, travel, and reputation.
Supporting both men and women in understanding their rights as victims or respondents.
Final Thoughts
Father’s Day should be a celebration of the love and dedication fathers bring to their families. However, the rise in AVOs shows that many men face significant legal and personal challenges in fulfilling this role. At Pannu Lawyers, we are committed to helping fathers and families navigate these challenges with compassion, professionalism, and strong legal representation.
If you or someone you know is affected by an AVO or family law matter, contact our team today to discuss how we can assist.
